What is the happy reality of our generation?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 02:39
People got married the old fashioned way (mostly).
Foreign Exchange were so hard to come by in case you had to go abroad.
Also, the Indian Economy while growing fast, is not able to provide jobs for sizable number of young men in the nation and that is a problem.
Now of course,Today Secularism to many is a dirty word and so is Socialism;
Redefined
Hospitals everywhere in India, with excellent care offered.
Can a cop pull you over walking home asking why you are out so late?
I will first attempt to use the nomenclature used to distinguish “generations” -albeit from a Desi Slant.
Now folks on Quora have undoubtably heard the so-called term “Boomer Generation” used in the US. Interestingly enough these time periods dovetail quite nicely with “Indian Conditions” as well.
The Airports have gotten better and nicer.
Were any US Generals hurt or killed yesterday in Damascus, Syria, yesterday 5/9/24?
> Idealism reigned supreme, about the Govt. and it people and why not?
Live-in, LGBTQ, none of these made the headlines.
Young Kids have a lot of money these days and are getting married much later.
What is something you want to "get off your chest"?
There are Engineering Colleges in almost every street corner, it seems.
Schools were fewer. Universities even fewer.
Even though inflation was rising, there was a semblance of stability in the daily routine of everybody. The institutions and arms of the Govt. worked for the most part. Judiciary, Police, Govt bureaucracy etc.
Why do men love to stink/being smelly?
I know that some will cavil that I am ignoring I. K. Gujral, Chandrasekhar, Deve Gowda, Morarji Desai, even the redoubtable A.B. Vajpayee’s stint as PM. But bear with me, for the moment. This is done on purpose and to make comparisons simpler.
Your parents chose your career path and also your profession. Aptitude be damned.
Study of Law (so important in my Dad’s generation gave way to Engineering and Medicine)
Why don’t the little sugar breeches gun owners understand that life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows?
Everything is available today without any delay. You have the money, you got it in today’s India.
The first flush of enthusiasm of the Nehruvian age soon turned into despondency as Public Sector Industry after Public Sector Industry were all running in losses.
Boys and Girls these days are not afraid to be friends to each other (My opinion overall a good thing)
Why won't Canada build their own fighter jet?
Five Star Hotels were not as ubiquitous as today.
Computers were just creeping in and opposed by the Labor Unions.
We had to wait for everything. Cars, Scooters, you name it. Nehru’s socialism meant that like the Soviet Union that he admired: There was a wait list for everything.
Foreign goods, forget about it, mostly sold in black markets.
Pluses:
> River Dams, Public Sector undertakings, Five year Plans galore, HMT, HAL, ITI etc. gave us the aam aami the euphoric feeling that we were on the right track to our deserved place as a great power in the comity of nations.
What are some sex stories from your college days?
Medical Insurance have proliferated along with US style expensive Doctor Bills.
> Indian Political leaders, for the most part, were all men and some women of the highest educational and moral Calibre at all levels.
> Leaders such as Nehru, Rajaji, Morarji Desai etc. were held to the highest standard and they fulfilled that expectation. The idea that they were corrupt was unthinkable, any more than the thought that one’s parents had sex with each other. It was an age, in retrospect, of “innocence” and not just at the level of us kids.
Life went on in essentially as a late 19th/early 20th century mold.
Ministers etc. were the only ones to have the Indian Flag on their bonnets. (Don’t know why?)
1991- 2014 ( P.V. Narasimha Rao/ MMS)
Why would my ex block me after I blocked him?
1964- 1984–1991 ( Roughly Indira/ Rajeev Gandhi)
Nehruvian: I belong to the Nehruvian Generation.
>Both Central and State. Most of the Leaders were educated in the finest traditions of liberalism, often at Oxford and Cambridge and they had sacrificed their ‘cushy futures” for the cause of independence. When country’s rule passed into their hands, what would one expect?. Little if any corruption at the highest levels, or at least the perception of it.
What does "feeling like your life is over" mean and why is it not in any dictionary online?
Many Indian Journalists have now been co opted so that they too are now in the money making business and currying favor with the powers that be. So how objective can their writings be?
Education has gotten so much more expensive.
5 Star hotels are dime a dozen.
What would you do if you were lost at sea in the Florida Keys?
The first flush of aaya rams and gaya rams were creeping into the body politic of our legislature and that is when I left for the USA and that was almost 50 yrs. ago.
> “Secularism” was dinned into our ears until it became “second nature”, to most of us anyway.
South Indian Films have now gained an All India Traction and seems to be edging out Bollywood, as it portrays less of a fake India than Bollywood.
Why does Islam give a bad vibe?
Import Substitution was the mantra.
There was no TV… Doordarshan of very poor quality only reserved for New Delhi.
And then we did not have Google, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram.
> We grew up basking in the first flush of the pleasant prospect of an “Independent” resurgent India.
There are also proliferation of IT cells that offer an altered reality of the world, as they would like to see it and not as it really is.
> The horrors of Partition meant that the Govt would make sincere efforts to put all that behind us and accommodate all faiths.
IIT’s had just been established.
Love marriages were all to be ‘gasped at’ so rare were they at that time.
Newspapers also heavily censored themselves- clashes were referred to as “communal disturbances” between two communities. No details.
Govt. careers, such as IAS, IPS etc. very quickly gave way to Engineering /Medical degrees in the newly developing India (At least in the South).
The big Cities have gotten bigger and is almost unlivable now, traffic wise.
It was very very hard for the general category people to get seats in the few Engineering and Medical Colleges in the State, let alone the IIT’s.
Indian industry started to make cars and other goods.
Thank you for the question. Ms. Priya C.
2014- Present
As far as the vast majority of Indians, who lived from hand to mouth, there was hope and relief in a plethora of laws passed.
South Indian Cinema had great actors and story lines that we could relate.
Growing up in this decade.
Boys and Girls were strictly segregated.
The middle class was small, but not that stressed from inflation etc.
There is a general atmosphere of intolerance towards minorities, with people unafraid to say things that would’ve been unthinkable in my day.
I will also assume that this question is posed vis a vis my generation and compare that to conditions faced by generations today.
Very few boys strayed and even fewer girls.
2014- Present ( Modi).
Indian Media is being controlled by a few business houses and the news especially foreign news is presented in a slanted way to suit the way, the Govt. would like it to be seen or not seen at all.
On a personal level.
I’m going to attempt to taxonomy “Generations” in India as below.
> India’s population was around 365 million.
It was to me, anyway, a relatively chaste period.
Women in India seem to have more freedom, even as they feel more afraid of the general environment.
Bank Jobs were highly sought after.
Live in relationship; Divorce (almost unheard of in my youth) don’t raise an eyebrow.
1947–1964 ( Post Independence Generation). (Roughly Nehruvian)
Hindi Cinema had some great songs and tunes, even if many of us in the South especially didn’t understand such words as Ishq, Waqt, Zulf in the Hindi songs.